My Dilemma

Selena Gomez · When The Sun Goes Down [2011]

You make me so upset sometimes

I feel like I could lose my mind

The conversation goes nowhere

Cuz you're never gonna take me there



And I know, what I know

And I know you're no good for me

Yeah I know, what I know

And I know it's not meant to be



Here is my dilemma

One half of me wants ya

And the other half wants to forget

My-my-my dilemma

From the moment I met ya

I just can't get you out of my head

And I tell myself to run from you

But I find myself attracted to my dilemma

My dilemma

It's you, it's you



Your eyes have told a thousand lies

But I believe 'em when they look in mine

I heard the rumors but you won't come clean

I guess I'm hoping it's because of me



And I know, what I know

And I know you're no good for me

Yeah I know, what I know

And I know it's not meant to be



Here is my dilemma

One half of me wants ya

And the other half wants to forget

My-my-my dilemma

From the moment I met ya

I just can't get you out of my head

And I tell myself to run from you

But I find myself attracted to my dilemma

My dilemma

It's you, it's you



I could live without you

Your smile, your eyes

The way you make me feel inside

I could live without you

But I don't wanna

I don't wanna, oh



You make me so upset sometimes



Here is my dilemma

One half of me wants ya

And the other half wants to forget

My-my-my dilemma

From the moment I met ya

I just can't get you out of my head

And I tell myself to run from you

But I find myself attracted to my dilemma

My dilemma

It's you, it's you



It's you (x9)



My-my-my dilemma

My Dilemma

Released in 2011 on the album When The Sun Goes Down, My Dilemma is a standout track from Selena Gomez's early solo career. The song exemplifies the pop-rock sound that defined her debut era, blending emotional vulnerability with an upbeat, driving rhythm. As one of the lead singles from the record, it showcases her transition from teen pop idol to a more mature songwriter and performer. The track remains a signature piece of her discography, reflecting the themes of romantic confusion and self-discovery that characterized her work during this pivotal period in her musical journey.