I Can't Make Your Decisions For You

We Came As Romans · Understanding What We've Grown To Be [2011]

I've led a horse to water

But he turned and ran as soon as I turned my back

It seems as if the way here

Wore worse on me than it did on him

Than it did on him



I feel like my words have only given way

To brief intentions but no intent for action

I've waited, I've asked, I've hoped

For you to show me I've thought wrong



Prove to me that I've thought wrong

And it will fill me further than being right

I wish you'd prove to me that you want to

Live life as much as I want you to



I swear my hopes are selfless in this

I only want you to feel whole

I swear my hopes are selfless in this

I only want you to feel whole

But I can't make your decisions for you

But I can't make your decisions for you



I feel like my words have only given way

To brief intentions but no intent for action

I've waited, I've asked

I've hoped for you to show me I've though wrong



I've led a horse to water

But he turned and ran as soon as I turned my back

It seems as if the way here

Wore worse on me than it did on him

Than it did on him



I can't make your decisions for you

Decisions for you



I can only be a guide

I can't make your decisions for you

I can only encourage action



I hope that my words have only given way

To real intentions with pure intent for action

I've waited, I've asked, I've hoped

Now show me that I've thought wrong

Show me that I've thought wrong

I Can't Make Your Decisions For You

We Came As Romans delivered a defining moment in their discography with the 2011 release of Understanding What We've Grown To Be. This album marked a significant evolution for the Chicago-based post-hardcore band, showcasing a more mature and dynamic sound compared to their earlier work. I Can't Make Your Decisions For You stands as a compelling track within this collection, reflecting the group's ability to blend aggressive instrumentation with melodic sensibilities. The recording captures the band at a pivotal stage in their career, exploring themes of personal agency and emotional complexity through their signature energetic style. As part of a cohesive body of work that solidified their presence in the genre, the song exemplifies the band's commitment to crafting emotionally resonant music that resonates with fans of modern rock and post-hardcore alike.