My Struggles

Missy Elliott · The Cookbook [2005]

(feat. Mary J. Blige, Grand Puba)



[Grand Puba]

Yeah, Missy Elliott, Grand Puba



[Missy Elliott]

Y'all don't really know who I am, God damn

I'm like grease in the frying pan cause I am

bacon, eggs, toast, butter

Smooth sexy lover more FRESH than {?}

Go ask your brother if y'all don't believe

I control the industry cause Missy in the lead

{*scratching*} Uhh, I'm talkin to you man

With my upper hand, the fans call me Dapper Dan

When I was young my pops, throw rocks

Always shit talk to my moms and call the cops

Couldn't wait 'til I was nice and grown

Sick of daddy mouth 'til six in the morn'

On and on and on 'til the record scratch

And if I made a few scraps I would never come back (YES!)

Take moms with me and a few ADAT's

And make a song about dad and tell pops he's a rat (YES!)

Oah-KAYYYYY!



[scratched] hold up



[Chorus 2X: Missy Elliott]

Y'all don't really know my life

Y'all don't really know my struggles and how much liquor I guzzle (YES!)

Y'all don't really know my fears

And how many years to get here but I'm ready to rumble



[Grand Puba]

Yeah, I be that throwback cat, I throwback 'gnac

I spit hot raps, then I check my traps

Pockets stop the bulk, green up like the Hulk

Ram up in somethin like that nigga Marshall Faulk

I'm a low key nigga, a O.G. nigga

Entertain my guests in "The Basement" like Tigger

Grand Puba and the name ring bells

And if it ain't about paper I don't waste my sells

So the new school new school need to learn yo

I burn baby burn like a Hunt's Pointe ho



[Missy Elliott]

Yo yo Puba, hold up

Let's take 'em back on some "411" shit

MA-RYYYY!



[beat changes]



[Mary J. Blige]

I'm Mary J. Blige, for a fact I don't rap

I'm known around the map to always make a comeback

I went through some struggles fightin with my ex-lovers

Stayed in lots of trouble, blessings then I had recovered

Had to pay them bills, the places I lived

Messin with them cats that's said to get I had to give

I had to tell them back up cause I was quick to smack 'em up

I didn't give a WHAT, Mary J. would act up



[Chorus: Missy + (Mary)]

Y'all don't really know my struggles

(I had two or three jobs I had to juggle)

And all them liquor shots from the pain I covered

(Strugglin from the break-ups with my lover)

(Y'all don't know the half) Don't know the half

(I'm better off now that was in the past)

I had to take the good stuff with the bad

Now I'm (thankful for the little things that I have)



[scratched] I'm Mary J. Blige, for a fact I don't rap

[scratched] Grand Puba, and the name ring bells

[scratched] I'm Mary J. Blige, for a fact I don't rap

[scratched] Grand Puba, and the name ring bells

My Struggles

Missy Elliott's "My Struggles" stands as a poignant song within her 2005 album, The Cookbook. During this era, Elliott continued to redefine hip-hop and R&B with her innovative production and introspective songwriting. The track reflects a more personal side of the artist, exploring themes of hardship and resilience without relying on her signature high-energy dance beats. As part of a discography that has consistently pushed genre boundaries, the song showcases her ability to blend emotional depth with rhythmic complexity. Elliott's work on The Cookbook demonstrated her enduring influence on contemporary music, maintaining her status as a visionary who fearlessly experiments with sound and subject matter while connecting with listeners on a human level.