That's How I Wanted It to Be
Bobby Bare · The Streets of Baltimore [RCA Victor] [1966]
I thought I'd like to leave the black side of life for a while
Live alone and have some fun
So I told them to take the kids and go back to their mama
(That's how I wanted it to be) and I felt satisfied it was done.
I wake up every morning, make myself a cup of Jay
Down to the factory that's where I spend my day
Five o'clock the whistle blows and that leaves the evening free
That's how I wanted it to be.
Well, it didn't take me long to find out just how much I needed her
So I wrote and told them to take the kids
And come on back home 'cause I was ready to settle down now
Well, you see I just got her letter today.
And it seems she's found someone else, someone she can depend on
(That's how I wanted it to be) and she ain't comin' home no more.
I wake up every morning, make myself a cup of Jay
Down to the factory that's where I spend my day
Five o'clock the whistle blows and that leaves the evening free
That's how I wanted it to be.
That's how I wanted it to be...
That's How I Wanted It to Be
Bobby Bare's 1966 recording of 'That's How I Wanted It to Be' stands as a poignant song within his extensive discography. Released on the album The Streets of Baltimore, the track captures the artist's signature blend of traditional country storytelling and contemporary emotional depth. During this era, Bare was refining a sound that balanced narrative clarity with melodic warmth, often exploring themes of personal reflection and acceptance. This particular song exemplifies his ability to convey complex sentiments through straightforward musical arrangements, resonating with listeners who appreciate the subtleties of classic country composition. As part of a prolific period for the singer, the recording contributes to a broader body of work that solidified his reputation as a versatile interpreter of the genre's evolving landscape.