You Only Want Me When You're Lonely
Hank Locklin · Please Help Me I'm Falling [Bear Family] [1995]
You only want me when you're lonely
When no one else want you it seems
And even though you call me darling
I know I'm never in your dreams.
I'm just someone you always turn to
Each time your new love turns you down
You only want me when you're lonely
When there's nobody else around.
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I'm just your temporary sweetheart
Who only sees you now and then
And though I say I won't forgive you
I'm glad when you come back again.
Why do I let you fool me darling
The way you break my heart's a crime
You only want me when you're lonely
And I want you all of the time...
You Only Want Me When You're Lonely
Hank Locklin's 1965 recording of "You Only Want Me When You're Lonely" stands as a quintessential example of mid-century country storytelling. The track captures the melancholic sentiment of seeking intimacy during times of solitude, a theme central to Locklin's discography and the broader tradition of the genre. Released on RCA, the song reflects the polished yet raw emotional depth characteristic of his work alongside contemporaries like Eddy Arnold. Its enduring appeal lies in its ability to articulate universal feelings of longing without relying on dramatic production, relying instead on Locklin's vocal delivery and the song's narrative structure. The recording remains a staple in collections of classic country music, illustrating the era's focus on personal emotion and rural life.