You Don't Feel The Same

Carly Simon · Hello Big Man [1983]

Honey, I don't want you to see me this way

So out of control

So carried away

'Cause you don't feel the same

And I remember times when I was your storm

I blew hot and cold

And you were so warm

But, now you don't feel the same

I remember when you were looking up at me

Like I was the only one

That you'd ever wanna see

Honey, how can I ask you to stay

When you've already gone

There's no one to blame

It's just that you don't feel the same

I touch you

And your eyes look away

Your hands are cold

The balance has changed

And darling, you don't feel

Honey, you don't feel

No, you don't feel the same

You Don't Feel The Same

Carly Simon's 'You Don't Feel The Same' stands as a poignant exploration of emotional detachment and the complexities of long-term relationships. Released on the 1983 album 'Hello Big Man', the track exemplifies Simon's signature ability to blend folk-rock instrumentation with introspective lyricism. The song delves into the subtle shifts in intimacy that occur over time, capturing a universal sentiment without resorting to melodrama. As part of her broader discography, this recording showcases her mature songwriting during the early 1980s, where she frequently examined the nuances of love and loss. The composition remains a staple in her catalog, resonating with listeners who recognize the quiet resignation often found in enduring partnerships.