Love's Not A Competition (But I'm Winning)
Paramore · Other Songs - Paramore
And I know I said all this so that you heard it all before
The trick is getting you to think that all this is your idea
And that it is everything you've ever wanted out of here
[Chorus:]
Love's not a competition, but I'm winning
I'm not sure what's truly altruistic anymore
Cuz every good that I do is listed, and your keeping score
[Chorus:]
Love's not a competition, but I'm winning
Well love's not a competition, but I'm winning
Or at least I thought I was
But there's no way of knowing
At least I thought I was
But there's no way of knowing
You know what it's like when you're new to the game
But I'm not
Well, I won't be the one to disappoint you
Well, I won't be the one to disappoint you, anymore
[Hayley (lead vocals)]
Oh I won't be the one to disappoint you, anymore
Oh I won't be the one to disappoint you, anymore
Oh I won't be the one to disappoint you, anymore
[Josh (back up vocals)]
Love's not a competition, but I'm winning
Love's not a competition, but I'm winning
Love's Not A Competition (But I'm Winning)
Paramore's 'Love's Not A Competition (But I'm Winning)' stands as a defining track from their 2013 self-titled album, showcasing the band's evolution into a mature pop-punk and alternative rock sound. Lyrically, the song explores themes of romantic resilience and personal triumph, positioning the narrator as someone who refuses to let external validation dictate their emotional state. With its driving rhythm and frontman Hayley Williams' emotive vocals, the recording captures the tension between vulnerability and strength characteristic of the band's later work. It serves as a testament to their ability to blend melodic hooks with introspective songwriting, resonating with listeners navigating complex relationships while asserting their own agency and confidence.