Can't Not
Alanis Morissette · Supposed Former Infatuation Junkie
Would I be proving you right with my silence or my retaliation
Would I be letting you win in my non reaction?
how would I explain?
how would I explain this to my children if I had them?
Because I can't not
Because I can't not
Because I can't afford to be misread one more time
Would it be whining if I said I needed a hug?
Would you feel slighted if I said your love's not enough?
how can I complain?
how can I complain when I'm the one who reaches for it?
Because I can't not
Because I can't not
Because I cannot walk without my crutches
Because I can't not
Because I can't not
Because I can't help wonder why you ask me
To all the unheard wisdom in the schoolyard
You think you're the right ones
You think you're the charmed ones I'm sure
how can you go on with such conviction?
And who do you think you are why do you question me?
Because we can't not
Because we can't not
Because we can't help laugh at underestimations
Because we can't not
Because we can't not
Because we cannot help without your willingness
Why do you affect me? Why do you affect me still?
Why do you hinder me? Why do you hinder me still?
Why do you unnerve me? Why do you unnerve me still?
Why do you trigger me? Why do you trigger me still?
Can't Not
Can't Not stands as a defining track from Alanis Morissette's 1998 album, Supposed Former Infatuation Junkie. Following the massive global success of her previous record, this song showcases the artist's continued exploration of complex emotional landscapes and introspective songwriting. The recording features Morissette's signature blend of alternative rock and pop sensibilities, characterized by dynamic shifts in tempo and intensity. Musically, the track reflects the mature, often turbulent themes present throughout the album, moving beyond the straightforward confessional style of her earlier work. It remains a significant song in her discography, highlighting her ability to craft nuanced narratives about human connection and internal conflict. The song's enduring presence in her live performances underscores its importance within her broader body of work and its resonance with audiences familiar with her distinctive vocal delivery and lyrical depth.